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Dear Editor

In the February issue of ReConnect Africa, I wrote a piece about how one's own circumstances can sometimes seem constricting and inhibiting, but that talking through the issues can often produce clarity, renewed confidence and a way forward. I illustrated this with a real-life tale about a client of mine.

A few days after the magazine was published, my mobile rang. It was someone who had read my article; something had resonated and they had made a real effort to find my number …… and had called me. They poured their heart out, relieved at being able to let go. They talked of how they were out of work, at 40, and that their life seemed such a failure. Sometimes it may seem so from one's own perspective; change the perspective and success is everywhere. If they read this letter, I hope they will realise what a great step forward they took, what courage they showed in picking up the telephone, however emotional it may have felt.

I made some suggestions about what they might do ….. and offered to talk later that week. That offer it still open – 07802 416529. It's good to talk.

PS I found this little poem on the wall of a café in Tasmania. I think it's lovely.

LETTING GO

  • To 'let go' is not to care for, but to care about:
  • To 'let go' is not to judge, but to allow another to be a human being:
  • To 'let go' is not to be in the middle arranging all the outcomes but to allow others to affect their destinies:
  • To 'let go' is not to be protective, it's to permit others to face reality:
  • To 'let go' is not to deny, but to accept:
  • To 'let go' is not to nag, scold or argue, but instead to search out one's own shortcomings and correct them:
  • To 'let go' is not to adjust everything to one's own desires, but to take each day as it comes, and cherish oneself in it:
  • To 'let go' is not to criticise and regulate anybody, but to try to become what one dreams one can be:
  • To 'let go' is not to regret the past, but to grow and live for the future:
  • To 'let go' is to fear less and love more.

Richard Yates, London

 

Dear Editor

Here's a golden rule you should remember: NEVER GET YOUR HONEY WHERE YOU MAKE YOUR MONEY.

ReConnect Africa Reader

 
 
 
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